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The Church Must Be a Home for the Oppresssed

6/27/2019

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by Kate Parker
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May we—the church—be a home for the afflicted and oppressed, that through us, they experience the power and liberation of God’s love and be made whole.  

Picture this: Jesus has recently calmed the Sea of Galilee, much to the astonishment of his disciples. Shortly thereafter, they enter what is most likely Gentile territory. They had no sooner put foot on land than what most people would describe as a crazed maniac rushes at them—naked and shouting at the top of his lungs. Now imagine what your reaction would be. I imagine this to be one of those situations where one might do everything they can to avoid eye contact, perhaps side-stepping the spectacle, with your heart racing, seeking to increase distance between yourself and this human who seems to be out of control, hoping they’ll leave you alone and unharmed. I mean—we’ve all done it, right? Crossing to the other side of the street if you see someone who might feel a little risky or uncomfortable to be near? Not Jesus.  No, he steps up and into the chaos, sees the root cause of the issue. This man’s behavior was not guided by his choice alone. He was oppressed by something much greater/stronger than himself.   

And one more thing is clear: this man had been put out of his community—ostracized. Luke tells us that he was kept under guard, bound with chains and shackles. Mark tells us that there were attempts to restrain him, but he could not be restrained—no one had the strength to subdue him. Night and day he would roam around the tombs and mountains, howling and bruising himself with stones. His own people had banished him, not knowing how to deal with his behavior. He was too much for them. 

Every one of us has experienced exclusion on some level. It hurts. It causes you to wonder what’s wrong with you—what you’ve done. It causes you to doubt yourself. Psychologically, ostracism—exclusion—has many negative consequences. Research indicates that it can cause lower levels of self-esteem, lower sense of belonging; it decreases one’s sense of being in control, and can create a diminished sense of significance and value. Imagine what effect that can have on the mind of someone who already suffers from troubling instability—that pain and shame on top of the frustration of having little control over oneself. But imagine if you had been cast so far out that you literally had no one and no place to call home—cast out to live among the dead. How agonizing! 

The man runs up to Jesus, falls down, and shouts out, “What have you to do with me, Jesus, Son of the Most High God? In this moment, even what appears to be a raving lunatic picks up on the obvious and can understand the truth of who Jesus is—that he represents THE God that is above all else, highest among the hierarchy of all gods. 
He begs for mercy, not torment. Surely he’s been tormented enough. Then with the greatest amount of simplicity, Jesus cuts into the chaos and asks the most basic of questions: “What is your name?” He does not dismiss this man, as so many others have done before. He doesn’t compartmentalize him as “the other.” He doesn’t fear him. He sees him as a child of God. 

Everyone, even the untouchable, needs God’s love—needs the gospel and the healing it can provide. 

Once the townspeople arrive they find the man—perhaps for the first time since he was a boy—clothed, in his right mind. And I find this fascinating. Their reaction wasn’t one of joy over reunification with one of their own, but of fear. They were afraid. Once again they hear the great testimony of what has happened and again it says they were “seized with great fear”—as if they were under their own oppression.  
We all have our demons. This fear cannot hear, cannot see, and cannot celebrate the good news. And so they react in their fear, by asking Jesus to leave—casting him away from the community just as they had their demon afflicted son. It seems the people’s fear can’t tell the difference between good and evil.

Fear is a powerful force—it can spiral out of control. 

Fear can be contagious. Fear can cause division in community—fear of the unclean, the other, people who aren’t like “us.” Fear can create chaos and confusion. Fear breeds fear. Fear makes us look away and put more and more things into the category labeled “Not My Problem.” It gets infinitely more complicated when our political systems and the media try to tell us what to think and feel, categorizing things broadly into good vs. bad silos. You see, Jesus asks us to see the person for who they are to God—a broken child in need of love.

It is my prayer that none of us play the role of these townspeople that are so seized by fear that we can’t see Jesus and his purpose when it is right before us. May we not be too short-sighted to see God’s potential for someone other than ourselves. 

Let’s conclude with the final scene of the story. The people ask Jesus to leave, so he gets into the boat—no coercion, no blame. He just honors them where they are. The healed man wanted to go with Jesus and his disciples. He has bonded with Jesus, being liberated by him. Maybe he was reluctant to go with the people who put him out of their midst long ago. Maybe he was afraid they wouldn’t receive him back into their fold. But Jesus, always an advocate for reconciliation, turns him towards his people and sends him home to share the good news. If they weren’t going to receive it from Jesus, perhaps they would from one of their own. So Jesus departs and we are told the man took that charge. Luke says he proclaims throughout the city how much Jesus had done for him. Mark’s account says he proclaimed it all throughout the whole Decapolis and people were amazed. 

Through one life changed, many benefited. Many lives likely transformed.

Both individually and as a community we have great opportunity—and dare I say, great responsibility—to stand up against the demonic, oppressive forces in this world, particularly when it means for standing up for those who are powerless to do so themselves. Some in the category of oppressed might invoke fear in us. Some might make us feel uncomfortable. We might want to avert our eyes, keep them cast out among the tombs, so that we’re not inconvenienced. But if we do that, we are missing out on the opportunity to witness the beauty of God’s healing and restoration. And we might be robbing someone from experiencing it for themselves.

May we—the church—be a home for the afflicted and oppressed, that through us, they experience the power and liberation of God’s love and be made whole. 

This post is taken from a sermon ny Kate Parker, preached at st. Andrew's Episcopal, Enicitas, CA on June 23, 2019. It can be found here.



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Harbingers of Spring

4/4/2019

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by Karen Johnson
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When I lived in the Michigan, I was very happy when the first signs of spring appeared. It was such a relief from the cold gray days of winter to finally, finally see some sun. When it hit 40 degrees, people would go outside without coats, and spring peeper frogs could be heard everywhere. Daylight lasted until 5:00 pm, and art fairs and street festivals started popping up.

Here in southern California we don’t get to hear spring peepers, but we do get to experience spring street fairs and festivals. One of my favorites is the Encinitas Street Fair, which will be April 27-28, 2019. And, like last year, St. Andrew’s will have a booth at the fair.

Our purpose in having a booth at the fair is twofold: first, to increase our visibility in the community, and second to provide a message of hope and peace. Last year we got a lot of favorable comments about our banner “God loves you; no exceptions.” Some people had seen (and heard) folks who had paraded through the fair with signs telling them were going to hell; after that, folks really appreciated our sign reassuring them that God loves them, no matter what.
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The Encinitas Street Fair is set up on the Coast Highway, from D Street to J Street. This year it is the last weekend in April. The Saint Andrew’s booth will be down at the southern end, near Philz Coffee and Classic Auto. Come on down and say hello, and if you can spare a couple of hours, help us greet people and tell them a little about Saint Andrew’s. We’ll even give you a granola bar.


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Divine Urgency: Am I Who I Am?

8/2/2018

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by Paula M. Fitzgibbons
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I have always been rather clear about who I am supposed to be. When I was all of four years old, I made three declarations about my future: I would become the Queen of Mexico, a nun who ran an orphanage, and a writer.

My problem is not so much absorbing my callings from God—it is understanding what each call really means and being willing to consider alternate paths towards it. I've spent far too much energy berating myself for not following these calls to the tee—despite, for example, knowing full well that Mexico has no queen.

Being who God calls us to be requires the act of becoming. So when we wonder about Divine Urgency, we must accept that God's timing and definitions do not always
 match our own. We are—in fact—always becoming.

I may never be the Queen of Mexico, but I spent years volunteering at a medical clinic in Tijuana. Though not a nun running an orphanage either, I was a Lutheran pastor whose family was initially formed through adoption—and who, not so incidentally, has advocated for adoption reform through the avenue of writing.

I was delighted recently to learn from a placard at the San Diego Zoo that California Condors become more colorful with age. This was rather comforting to me. Though my paths to becoming who I am—to embracing God's plans for me—have wandered, one thing remains certain: Divine Urgency is not the same as human urgency. As long as we are becoming, we needn't fret so much about the specifics. The path, in and of itself, paints the full picture of who God calls us to be—and that picture becomes more colorful and closer to the Divine with every step.

To read more stories from those friends of St. Andrew's who have heeded God's call, click here.

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A Reflection on the 4th of July

7/3/2018

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Douglas J. Fisher, Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Western Massachusetts, offered a poignant reflection on the 4th of July in a recent piece he wrote for telegram.com. 

Bishop Fisher writes,


"William Sloan Coffin, the chaplain at Yale University for many years, once said: 'There are three kinds of patriots. Two bad and one good. The bad ones are the uncritical lovers and the loveless critics. The good patriots carry on a lover’s quarrel with their country, a reflection of God’s lover’s quarrel with the world.'

We love our country. We are blessed and a blessing, and, in many ways, a beacon to the world. May we be good patriots and carry on a lover’s quarrel with America until we mend what has been torn apart. This is a day for pride and celebration. It is also a day to pray that we might live up to the great ideals on which we were founded."

You can read Bishop Fisher's reflection in its entirety here.


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Can These Bones? A Reflection on Pentecost

5/25/2018

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by Mother Brenda Sol
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“To reveal God’s love by nourishing the community through worship, acceptance, and service.”  --St. Andrew’s Mission Statement--

A mission statement encapsulates, and reminds us, of our values as a community. The values we identified as core to who we are as a parish include:
  • We are an open and welcoming community.
  • We love and serve our neighbors together.
  • We care for each other as family.
  • We joyfully live out our faith, grounded in the Gospel.
  • And, we celebrate the journey!
I had been thinking about our core values in relation to Pentecost ever since I read an article from a podcast called “Can These Bones.” I can’t remember where I came across the report, but, of course, with a title like “Can These Bones” it caught my attention because I knew we’d be reading about “dem bones” in the Ezekiel passage on Pentecost Sunday.

As I read the interview with the Executive Vice President of Jet Blue Airlines, I got really excited about how the mission statement of a company in the for-profit world was so similar to ours in the not-for-profit world. Both statements are about making a difference in the world.

The Jet Blue mission statement can be boiled down to two words: Inspiring Humanity.  And the airlines very consciously intend the double meaning: both “inspiring humanity,” as in their actions inspire the rest of the world, and also “inspiring humanity” in terms of taking actions that inspire others to do things that are humane, just, true, and respectful—“inspiring humanity.”

In that article, the Jet Blue executive talked about how not only do all the employees—from the cleaning crew to the cabin crew—have the company’s core values memorized, they are empowered to take actions that might go against protocol, if those actions would better live into the company’s values. So, for instance, after the shooting at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando a few years back, Jet Blue offered free travel for families of victims, back and forth from Puerto Rico to Orlando. So while increasing the company’s bottom-line is surely a desired outcome, it is not one of their core values.

When we identified the core values of St. Andrew’s, we were coached to think about what we would keep doing as a parish—as the body of Christ—even if we received negative criticism for doing so. Jesus might not have ever mentioned the words “core values,” but he certainly embodied and modeled for us the kinds of risks one ought to take when living into “kingdom values.”

Even though his actions did not win Jesus popularity contests with those in charge, he healed people on the Sabbath, he sat with the other, he insisted that people in his company care for each other—even if they were strangers to each other, because, like Jet Blue employees, Jesus had been empowered to take risks in order to better live into the values of God that would inspire humanity.

The Ezekiel story we read on Pentecost reminds us that sometimes—although the values were there all along, we require new life to be breathed into us. So that breath might be a reclaiming of sorts. It’s not that we’ve been doing church wrong, but the fabric of our culture continues to change, so we dig down deep and we find the points at which more people can access Christ’s message, and we breathe new life into the bones of our parish.
Lately life is being breathed into a national movement called “Reclaiming Jesus.” The founding group is a couple dozen clergy from a number of different denominations—from Baptists to Methodists to Episcopalians—including Michael Curry, our current Presiding Bishop. The preamble to the joint statement of faith they created on Ash Wednesday quotes Martin Luther King Jr., who said, “The church must be reminded that it is not the master or the servant of the state, but rather the conscience of the state.”

The statement includes six affirmations, each of which is counterbalanced by a rejection. I’ll highlight a couple of them that follow the thread of our core values:
  • We believe each human being is made in God’s image and likeness. Therefore, we reject the resurgence of white nationalism and racism in our nation.
  • We believe how we treat the hungry, the thirsty, the naked, the stranger, the sick, and the prisoner is how we treat Christ himself. Therefore, we reject the language and policies of political leaders who would debase and abandon the most vulnerable children of God.
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One of our vestry members was so moved by the statement that she traveled to D.C. to be a part of a prayer vigil the Reclaiming Jesus group held outside the White House this week!

I think that sort of stirring—that feeling that “I have to be a part of this!”—is what the sense of “astonishment” must have been for the people gathered on that day of Pentecost. It’s way more than that they heard their own language being spoken. That kind of astonishment comes in the recognition that the thing that’s happening is so much larger than us, and that we are included in it. That’s the whole point of Pentecost—to alert us, to remind us, to blow through us with a Holy wind that God’s values—God’s love—is for everyone…no matter the language they speak!

This is included in a couple of our core values:
  • We are an open and welcoming community.
  • We love and serve our neighbors together.
Just as Jet Blue has claimed they are about more than simply airplanes, they’re about making a difference in the world, we are not just about this building, we are BEING church out in the world—sharing kingdom values with all we encounter.

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In Defense of Mother's Day

5/9/2018

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by Paula M. Fitzgibbons
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Every year at this time, blog posts and news reports appear begging mothers to consider all the people for whom Mother’s Day might not be a pleasant holiday. The growing trend is to request that mothers yield the day to those who have experienced loss.

I wonder if it’s because Mother’s Day holds its roots in feminism. Early incarnations included ancient Greco-Roman celebrations of the mother Goddesses and a day for mothers of opposing sides during the Civil War to reconcile. The more formal holiday grew out of feminist calls to action, the most renowned being Julia Ward Howe’s late 19th century request for mothers to unite for world peace.

It is indeed a helpful reminder that compassion and empathy for those who have experienced loss are two callings we should strive to fulfill. Must we do so, though, at the expense of celebrating the important values and lessons we learn from the women who came before us?


This especially presents a challenge for communities of faith, who traditionally celebrate Mother's Day with gusto.

I have been a motherless child. I spent over two decades estranged from my mother, who passed away just a few years after we re-united. I have also been a childless woman, desperate to enter motherhood. I spent years struggling with infertility and awaiting adoption. I understand how painful it can be around Mother’s Day to have images that evoke personal loss punctuate one’s time and space.

I also know, though, how affirming it can feel to have our families, friends, and faith communities celebrate motherhood each year. Perhaps  faith communities should think twice before eliminating a liturgical nod to Mother's Day.

Consider the following:

1. Mothers in the U.S. are a marginalized population. It might not seem this way to people without children, who are tired of our double-strollers crowding sidewalks and our whining children disturbing their nights out (or to at least one woman who thinks that maternity leave should be available to women without children). However, U.S. mothers are regularly mommy-tracked in our careers. Unlike much of the world’s mothers and despite many of us requiring, at minimum, physical recovery time, we are not guaranteed pay for maternity leave. Child care is often prohibitively expensive for U.S. families, typically leading to one parent staying home. Since, on average, women are paid less than our male counterparts for the same jobs, it usually falls on women to sacrifice our careers if necessary to care for our children.

2. Father’s Day, the male equivalent to Mother’s Day, does not receive the same level of scrutiny and criticism. My Facebook feed isn’t filled each Father’s Day with calls to be more considerate of fatherless children and men who struggle with the loss of fatherhood. Father’s Day even holds the distinction of having been created largely so that fathers would feel included in celebrations of parenthood.

3. A day meant to celebrate women is the one secular holiday that U.S. Americans seem to want to micro-manage. There are various annual, secular holidays besides Father’s Day that celebrate a particular faction of people to the exclusion of others without the scrutiny held over Mother’s Day. When Veterans Day rolls around, those of us who are neither veterans nor closely connected with veterans step aside to allow the beneficiaries of the day to hold their spotlight. We even line up to participate in parades where we cheer on people we might not even know. Likewise, Valentine’s Day is typically considered for lovers, the crux of Halloween for children. Though we should never force pointed holidays onto those who don’t celebrate them, we can and do allow specific groups of people their special days.

4. The U.S. American calendar is filled with non-holiday events and experiences that provide opportunities for some to the exclusion of others. As long as exclusivity is not born out of bigotry, hatred, or support for inequality, this can be okay, even necessary. Non-runners, including those of us unable to run due to disabilities, typically do not begrudge runners their races, even though they close our roads and clog our neighborhood coffee shops several times a year. Adults don’t ask children to enjoy their school breaks less because we don’t receive the same amount of time off. We don’t request that college students avoid expressing their pride on social media about scholarships or other accolades they receive as academics, even though non-students don’t receive scholarships for general living. Everybody can’t be a part of everything, nor should we expect total inclusion.

5. More than any other group of people, it seems, mothers are constantly told how we are supposed to carry out our roles. We are given conflicting advice, backed by convincing, but also conflicting, science regularly. We are pandered to by corporations that want our money, criticized and prosecuted by legislators who want to control us, simultaneously demonized and deified by the media. Now we are being told to be careful about how we celebrate Mother’s Day because people who are not mothers, or who don’t have healthy relationships with their mothers or motherhood, might feel excluded. To be tossed into yet one more battle that divides and belittles us, a battle that few else are asked to enter with regards to other secular holidays, feels like another way to control women in general, mothers specifically.

Within a contemporary feminist context, Mother’s Day affords us one day a year when we can hope for a neutral zone, when mothers can support and celebrate one another, despite our culture’s insistence upon dividing us. It also offers families who choose to celebrate the day together a formal pause in family chaos to reflect upon mother/child relationships.

The concept of motherhood can be an emotionally loaded challenge for many people. I understand and have been there. I also believe that we can honor the losses surrounding mothers and motherhood within our culture while creating space on Mother’s Day for mothers and families of every incarnation to choose to celebrate motherhood as desired—inside and outside of faith communities—without fear of repercussion, guilt, and division.

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​A version of this post was originally published at mommymeansit.com.


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Resurrecting Dignity: The Voices of Young Prophets

4/5/2018

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by Rev. Richard Hogue
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A phrase I’ve been meditating on for a few weeks now is: “It’s easy to rush and make a mess, it’s hard to wait and give birth to a promise.” I’m someone who likes to see and get things done. I’m someone who has been too quick to answer, and too quick to move on in the face of frustration. There’s a word for that: impatient. I can be impatient about so many things in life, and I’m not the only one.

When the shootings in Parkland, Florida  rippled through the lives of the young people there, we all experienced some form of impatience. Wherever you stand on issues related to the second amendment and gun control, there’s impatience in the air. Something does need to be done, but what, and how? How do we resurrect dignity in the face of our own impatience?

The young people of Parkland spoke. They used their voice to raise this impatience. In the space filled with sorrow and anger, they used the instrument God gives to prophets. How long, o Lord, how long? They restored their dignity by speaking to vulnerability and suffering.

When I imagine impatience and waiting, I see a sort of dance. Impatience wants things done now, and waiting is okay — letting some pieces fall naturally into place. Neither is wrong, we should want things done quickly; and we need to learn to heel our expectations. All of this is wrapped in the most valuable resource we have: time. In our Greek scriptures in the New Testament, there are two words for time. Kronos (chronology) is sequential time: this happened then that happened. Kairos is opportune time: the time to act, decisive time. I’ll throw in one more Greek word for fun: kerygma. Kerygma is proclamation.

For youth and young adults at St. Andrew’s and across the United States, we are in a moment of kairos. Our confirmation class is at an opportune time to practice their (kerygmatic) proclamation of faith. This summer, the youth group will participate in a kairos moment in fire swept areas of Northern California, proclaiming a Gospel truth of God’s wish to restore us and all of creation. With some help from my fellow young adults, we will embody a moment of kairos, seeking to serve people in our age group by studying our needs and understanding what needs kerygma amongst us.

What we make of any kairos moment becomes kronos, a sequence of events, in the rearview mirror. But in this moment, we still need to listen for the Spirit, discern our call, and then act in prayer and hope. What Christians kerygmatically voice is the resurrection of dignity of all people through the life of Jesus Christ and the grace of God. We, as the body of Christ, are called to restore dignity wherever it lies in shambles, or simply needs restoring. With the example of the Parkland students in mind, may we speak boldly in this kairos moment, and may we proclaim the restoration of all people’s dignity.



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Maundy Thursday Made Me Love My Feet

3/26/2018

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by Carol Gritzkey
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While attending Maundy Thursday services in the past, I had never participated in the foot washing ceremony. The reason? Pure vanity! I’ve never liked my feet. They are big, I have a bunion, and, at least to me, my toes are funny looking. My mom would always answer my complaints with, “But you’re tall, your feet are proportionate, and they support you so well.” This didn’t make me feel much better as I longingly gazed at her size 6’s.

One of the perks of aging is that you stop caring so much about what others think, thereby squelching some of that vanity. Last Maundy Thursday, during a most solemn and inspiring service at St. Andrew's, I didn’t think twice as I removed my shoes and stepped forward to have my feet tenderly washed, then kneeled and washed the feet of the next person. They were small, perfect feet, with perfectly graduated, artistically painted, tiny toes!

On the drive home, I found myself crying tears of humility, happiness, and of a feeling of Christ within me, and I made a promise to God that I will never again complain about the perfect feet God gave me.

This year, on Maundy Thursday, perhaps you, too, will feel compelled to come bare your feet and your soul and feel the love of Christ in the hands and the water that caress your beautiful feet.

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He Was Looking for Confidence in all the Wrong Places

2/21/2018

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L. Jean Dunn
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Definition of Confidence:

A feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. A belief in one’s ability to succeed.

The state of feeling certain about the truth of something.

Hebrews 10:35-37: “Cast not away therefor your confidence which hath great recompense of reward. For ye hath need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise. For yet a little while, and he that shall come will come, and will not tarry.”
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As an entrepreneur I live in the world of self-confidence. I look at investors in the eye and tell them that our business will reach its objectives. I tell customers that our products are the best solution for their needs and we can deliver. I am a cheerleader to our employees, encouraging them to move forward and not doubt their abilities. “You can do it. We’re going to make it.”

But in reality, I have no idea. I have no idea if sales will close. I do not really know if our products will work for our customers. I have no idea as to whether we will meet our financial objectives. As I lay in bed at night or wander around the house I have my doubts. I pray for more self-confidence. I try to find it in books, seminars and articles. It has always proved to be short lived and ephemeral.

Lately, I have discovered that perhaps I have been looking for confidence in the wrong places. More importantly, perhaps I was using the wrong definition of the word. Confidence comes not from the belief in one’s capabilities, but from one’s belief about the truth. That truth comes from God. His Son has promised that he will be with us always. Whether we hit our financial objectives or not. Whether someone buys the product or not. I have no doubt that He is with me. And of greater importance is the fact that “He is able to do immeasurably more than all I ask or imagine according to his power that is at work in me (Ephesians 3:20).”

​So whatever questions, whatever doubts that creep in I know that God is with me and He can do more than I have ever dreamed.  My confidence comes from my belief in Him and, if I continue on, I will receive the promise. No matter what happens, “Everything gonna be alright,” as Bob Marley has sung. I am on the winning team. God is for me! Who can be against me?  (Romans 8:31)
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Amidst Another Mass Shooting, We Consider How to Love More Than We Hurt

2/18/2018

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by Paula M. Fitzgibbons
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On Ash Wednesday, as we in the church pondered both love and death, 17 children were killed — and many more wounded — in yet another school shooting. This time, the lives were lost in Parkland, Florida.

It is natural to respond to such news by either fighting or fleeing. As a parent of three teenagers, I wanted nothing more than to hide the news from my children and go about our Valentine’s Day/Ash Wednesday events. Others jumped into argument mode, immediately debating the issues that arise when there is a mass shooting. There is a reason we hold a strong fight or flight response: it helps us to survive even the thought of such incomprehensible atrocities.

There is another response we can work to muster, though. We can take action. On Ash Wednesday, we considered our own sin and mortality. “I think we need to ask ourselves today,” I started with my kids on our way home from both a Valentine’s Day activity and receiving ashes, “If, when we die, we want to be remembered for our sinfulness or for what we did to ease the suffering in the world caused by sinfulness. Will we be remembered for how we loved or for how we hurt?”

What actions can we — as a community of faith — do to love more than we hurt?

We can work to dismantle the hatred and bigotry that often lead to such violent acts. We can commit to nurturing those who feel overwhelmed by loneliness and isolation. We can work to effect the legislative changes necessary to reduce gun violence. We can create systems that assist those whose needs outweigh their resources. We can take steps to build strong, welcoming communities that embrace all people. 

Responding to the mass shooting in Las Vegas in 2017, the Episcopal organization Bishops United Against Gun Violence wrote, “We must look into our own hearts and examine the ways in which we are culpable or complicit in the gun violence that surrounds us every day.”

We at St. Andrew’s express our prayers for and solidarity with all those affected by the school shooting in Parkland, Florida. We vow to take action to eliminate our own complicity in violence and to help heal a nation lost to grief.
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You can read the entire statement from Bishops United Against Gun Violence here and their more recent statement regarding school shootings here. 

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